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Time For Your Mind Gym – Who’s Your Best connection?


You probably have too many connections, but there are mainly a few you bond really well with & can’t tolerate living without. You’re more attracted to them because they’re harmonious with your core thoughts & values in & out. With these special connections you’re more inclined to hang out; You share your stories & concerns; & with them, your dreams are more likely to come about.

These special connection, with time, strengthen & become your preference. In your circle of friends, other people become located farther away & more remote as a reference. Let’s be real, those closer connections are more prone to make a positive difference. They understand you without your uttering any word or sentence.

Right in the middle of these few, there’s YOU. The shortest distance from any other connection – anywhere in view. The easiest to reach; The best there is to teach; The only person, for sure, you’re forever glued to. Among all other connections, YOU’re the one you’re closest to; Perhaps the only one available, sometimes, to turn to.

I say this because so many times, even those closest to your heart will be so busy, at many points, with their own lives. You reach out & no one arrives. And when you’re all alone & do feel lonely, you’ve got to have a mechanism to survive. Being left on your own to deal with your demons could scare like hell anyone alive.

“One of life’s blessings is having close connections. The best to select & nourish always is our own inner reflection.” ~ 3Ds

It’s true others can encourage & validate your perceptions; yet, the sources of truth are found through your own introspections.

Seize those moments of solitude, always, to gravitate within, befriend that miracle inside, & understand your complexion.

As you do that, allow that center to be filled with magnet-like affection. Then you can radiate back to that closest selection.

In your inner circle (I hope) of closest connections,

I remain,

Your Personal Coach (planting insights & direction)


PS. I’ll be the guest speaker in the relationships & expectations seminar “Adam & Leave” with Dr. Hady Safa on March 13 at 6:30pm in Babel Theater Hamra. You can know more details & how to book your seat here: http://www.strides-ddd.com/?page=latest-events

  1. March 3, 2014 at 7:01 pm

    Beautiful and thought-provoking. Yes, I agree. Though I have many connections, there are a few treasured, very close ones who have been in my life for a long time. Still, we all have our own lives and our own problems and responsibilities and we must deepen our own connection to and understanding of ourselves. I love your posts!


    • March 3, 2014 at 7:32 pm

      Many thanks for the feedback Iris 🙂 I really appreciate it that you still manage to squeeze the time to read my posts at a time when I’m slacking off in reading yours 😦 it’s crazy the way my days are loaded 🙂
      Thaaanks a gazillion 🙂


      • March 3, 2014 at 7:57 pm

        We just do the best we can, Dania! I appreciate it when you find time too, but know you can’t always. It’s hard. Sending hugs and always admiration!


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